Sure, families can have conflicts, but these may stem from issues with control, capacity, a lack of empathy, or a refusal to truly listen and understand.
As we age, we naturally lose some of our judgment. Out of fear and confusion, some aging individuals stubbornly attempt to hold on to their control. On the other side of the equation, loved ones sometimes want to take over control, struggling to empathize with an elderly parent who knows they are losing capacity but has a difficult time asking for help. Ultimately, a parent who lacks capacity and refuses help may become subject to a conservatorship, losing the very control they stubbornly tried to retain.
Occasionally, greedy individuals attempt to control and isolate an elderly person by suggesting to them that the loved ones who truly care are only after their money. In those instances, a conservatorship is absolutely necessary.
Ultimately, when folks care, listen, and try to understand one another, problems get solved and legal fees lessen.
