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Apologizing: A Complex Act

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Apologize? Why?

I’m sure we all know people who rarely, if ever, apologize. Why is apologizing so difficult, and when is it truly necessary? It’s important to recognize that you should never apologize for doing the right thing or if you were not mistaken. Furthermore, an apology can sometimes imply liability when you aren’t at fault. You shouldn’t apologize for pursuing your dreams or simply being yourself. Over-apologizing can also diminish the sincerity of your words, especially if you continue repeating the actions you’re apologizing for.

However, a genuine apology can resolve conflicts, clear up misunderstandings, and mend relationships. It can even save on potential litigation costs and liability. In one instance, an apology could have saved a brother hundreds of dollars in damages and legal fees, avoiding over a decade of drawn-out litigation. Fortunately, in many cases, when parties choose reconciliation over litigation, they save significant time, money, and emotional distress. It’s often the stubborn, greedy, and deceitful individuals who refuse to admit fault and justify their actions that force us into lengthy legal battles.

Death: It’s not easy, but don’t make it harder

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Watching a loved one struggle at the end of life is never easy, but it’s something that almost everyone faces and that we cannot control.
It’s emotional. One considers the relationship with the loved one and has to consider the relationship with their current and extended family members. Those relationships can make the passing of life more difficult. We don’t know what the loved one “would have wanted” unless they have expressed that in a document.
I have even heard recently, “I had a healthcare power of attorney, but I can’t find it.” In response I politely mentioned to the healthcare facility, “Honor that document once we see it; until then, next of kin govern the care and disposition of a loved one pursuant to statute.” The facility, relieved not to be embroiled in a conflict, agreed. Once more, the facility could not have provided medical information about the person under their care to a third party without the third party having a healthcare directive.
Overall, our advice is to celebrate the loved one’s life and to remember how they enriched your lives, which will help them live on in your memory. Commit their bodies consistent with their beliefs. Avoid financial issues, which are often a catalyst to conflict. The will cannot be probated and executor appointed immediately anyway.

Freeland Martz Anniversary

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Freeland Martz will celebrate its 12th anniversary this October.

Thank you to our valued clients and professional colleagues, your business and referrals contribute greatly to our success. Our firm is honored to have been given the opportunity to serve you, and we look forward to many more years of providing you with the highest quality legal representation possible. Thank you for twelve years! And, as always, please contact us if we can be of service.

“Attentive, Accessible, and Committed to Your Best Interest”