Apologize? Why?
I’m sure we all know people who rarely, if ever, apologize. Why is apologizing so difficult, and when is it truly necessary? It’s important to recognize that you should never apologize for doing the right thing or if you were not mistaken. Furthermore, an apology can sometimes imply liability when you aren’t at fault. You shouldn’t apologize for pursuing your dreams or simply being yourself. Over-apologizing can also diminish the sincerity of your words, especially if you continue repeating the actions you’re apologizing for.
However, a genuine apology can resolve conflicts, clear up misunderstandings, and mend relationships. It can even save on potential litigation costs and liability. In one instance, an apology could have saved a brother hundreds of dollars in damages and legal fees, avoiding over a decade of drawn-out litigation. Fortunately, in many cases, when parties choose reconciliation over litigation, they save significant time, money, and emotional distress. It’s often the stubborn, greedy, and deceitful individuals who refuse to admit fault and justify their actions that force us into lengthy legal battles.